There are many ways to get guys to notice you, like you, and even become your significant other. The key to it is more about you and less about them. It is about accentuating every one of your strengths both internally and externally, and being confident. So try to focus on yourself first, then be interesting and interested.

Steps:

Look in the Mirror

1. Look in the mirror and identify all the things that you like about yourself. If you focus on the qualities that you like about yourself, you will have far more confidence in yourself than most women out there. While your looking in the mirror, also become comfortable with your flaws, get over them, you should be your biggest fan. Being insecure stinks and serves no one. Genuine confidence will show and give you an edge.
   
   
   
   
   
2. Be distinctly you. If you ever observe people at a party or any social gathering, you'll always see the majority of guys drawn to women with unique (but not intimidating) personalities. It's never a plain Jane, following the herd, who they all gravitate to, now is it? So ask yourself, is there anything you could improve about your personality or who you are to make yourself more interesting and fun to talk to?
   
   
   

Be Nice

1. Be good to people. Guys can easily ignore someone who gossips, nags, insults, teases, and alienates other people. But if he knows you're a kind, caring person, how can he resist? Which is why it's useful to treat others nicely so he'll know what type of person you are. It's amazing how much a guy views you by his first impression and how you act toward others.
   • Don't always try to be the life and soul of the party, you'll probably make a fool of yourself, be modest and reserved but not boring.
2. Smile! Most guys like girls who smile. Trust me it will help a lot! It will also make you seem more approachable.
   
   
   

Be Confident

1. Be confident with yourself. Guys like girls that are comfortable with themselves the way they are, not girls that are like: "Nobody likes me because I'm so ugly and fat!"
2. Learn to ask nicely. This is harder than it sounds, but once you're comfortable going up to a guy, making gentle eye contact, giving him a warm smile, and asking him "Could you do me a favor?" you'll have him wrapped around your finger. Try to look innocent and make your eyes big, and bat your eyelashes alot - trust me this helps significantly, even if its completely artificial over-batting.
   
   
   

Be Funny

1. Have a wonderful sense of humor. People gravitate to people who can make others laugh and see the funny side of any situation. But don't cross the line into being silly--laughing at anything and everything that crosses your path can be seen as "ditzy" and "air headed," both of which are quite resistible to some guys.Laugh when he's genuinely funny, or you can tell he was trying to be. Smiles help too.

Be Healthy

1. Be healthy. Guys take kindly to a girl who takes care of herself, and that means finding a happy medium for your weight, eating well, getting enough sleep and exercising. Plus, being healthy makes you more energetic, as well as adding to your confidence--who can resist that?
2. Be hygienic. Maintain yourself so that you always smell and look fresh and lovely. Take showers, brush your teeth at least two times a day, wear clean clothes, etc.You don't have to get all decked out to be irresistible. Many guys find impeccable cleanliness to be extremely feminine.
   
   
   

Be Sexy

1. Act sexy. Say things in a way that makes you feel sexy. Think flirt when you talk, it will automatically make your voice more seductive.
   
   
   
   • But don't act too sexy. If you do, he will think you are trying too hard and that you aren't genuinely interested.
   
   

Video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZguuRVT7FKk

This video shows instructions slightly different than that described in the text steps above.

Tips

• Keep gum or mints handy.
• Eye contact is sexy, but not too long, you don't want to creep the guy out.
• Walk into a room like you own the place. Keep your head up and think "fierce and graceful."
• Guys like it when you laugh at their jokes, even if they're not funny. Just don't laugh at all of them or you'll come off as clingy.
• When a guy gives a compliment, don't deny it. A simple thank you works.

Warnings

• Being gratuitously sexual (i.e. showing lots of skin, being very touchy-feely) often backfires. While it might get you a lot of attention and perhaps make you irresistible at first, it'll make you repellant in the long run. Who wants to be around the girl who looks like she's been with everyone else? Also, don't rush into sex too soon.
• If you are considering the sexual approach (see above), keep in mind that men won't respect you if things progress too quickly.
• Don't be overly confident! As in saying things like,"Aren't I sexy?" and "You would be thankful to find a girl as perfect as me!" Okay, Ms. Conceited! There is a line between confident and arrogant. Don't cross it! Being confident means that you aren't a doormat and you're willing to stick up for your ideas. Being arrogant or pushy means that you'll run over other people and squelch others ideas. Don't do that. Be confident and courteous.
• Be careful not to be a clingy person, those who are will only come off as annoying.